Help to strengthen your relationship and your marriage
Understand what you are going through, find what to do this week and grow together from a Christian perspective.
Take the free assessment See what you are going through
Free, no sign-up, five to seven minutes.
What are you going through?
Pick whatever is closest to your situation. Each topic leads to a guide with what to do, what to avoid and where to start.
- We do not know what is going on
- We do not communicate anymore
- We are drifting apart
- There was an affair
- We have intimacy problems
- We fight about money
- We are thinking about separating
- The kids are consuming us
- There are problems with family
- We need to forgive each other
- We want to grow closer to God
- We are getting married
- See all 21 topics
How is your marriage, really?
Eighteen statements across nine areas. At the end you see your strengths, the area asking for attention first and what to do about it this week.
Take the free assessment How it works
- Nine areas of marriage
- No sign-up
- Your answers never leave your browser
- Not a psychological test
Situations with their own guide
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Every common question about marriage has a page that answers it directly, in English and Spanish, with what research says, its limits and what the Bible says.
Grow together, not in parallel
In most devotional apps each person reads alone. In 3CORD the day has four parts and only advances once both of you have done yours. No one gets ahead and no one is left behind.
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Verse
A short passage you both read on the same day.
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Reflection
What that passage says about your marriage, today.
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Application
One small, concrete thing to do before bed.
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Prayer
A short prayer. Each answer stays hidden until the other spouse answers.
You don’t have to wait until the marriage is broken
Most couples look for help once the problem has been there for years. 3CORD is built to act earlier, in four steps.
Understand
What is really happening, beyond the latest argument. Every guide opens with a direct answer and separates the signs from what gets mistaken for them.
Talk
Scripts and questions to discuss it without a fight: how to ask for something specific, how to raise a hard topic, how to stop in time.
Practice
One short exercise for this week. The tools run in your browser, are free and need no sign-up.
Walk
A shared daily habit in the app. The day only advances once both of you finish it, so it never depends on one person’s motivation.
Journeys to work on it together
Short guided paths: each day one reflection, one conversation and one practice. You do them in the app, both of you.
- 21 days · 12 min Learning to listen again Twenty-one days to change how you talk, not what you talk about.
- 7 days · 10 min Marriage first aid Seven days to lower the conflict before deciding anything.
- 21 days · 10 min Reconnecting Twenty-one days to stop being roommates.
- 40 days · 15 min Rebuilding trust Forty days for the season after a betrayal, done together.
- 21 days · 12 min Growing close again Twenty-one days to talk about intimacy without it ending in a fight.
- 21 days · 12 min Learning to forgive Twenty-one days to release the debt without pretending it never happened.
- 14 days · 12 min Talking about money without fighting Fourteen days to actually agree on how you handle money.
- 21 days · 10 min Parenting as a team Twenty-one days to share the load and reclaim the couple.
- 14 days · 10 min Setting boundaries together Fourteen days to agree on boundaries with both families.
- 30 days · 10 min Growing together in faith Thirty days to finally have a shared spiritual life.
- 30 days · 15 min Preparing for our marriage Thirty days to discuss beforehand what gets argued about later.
- 14 days · 10 min Stop fighting about everything Fourteen days to change the pattern of your arguments.
- 30 days · 12 min Rebuilding transparency Thirty days to step out of secrecy, together and with clear agreements.
- 21 days · 10 min Growing when only one believes Twenty-one days to stop convincing and start building.
- 14 days · 12 min Meeting again in this season Fourteen days to fit your marriage to the season you are in now.
- 21 days · 12 min Trusting without watching Twenty-one days to lower the alarm without giving up the truth.
- 14 days · 10 min Getting our time back Fourteen days so the relationship stops being last on the list.
First, your safety
Helping a marriage must never put anyone at risk. These two rules come before everything else.
What you answer is yours
The assessment and tools run in your browser. Your answers are never sent to a server and disappear when you close the page.
How we handle dataIf there is fear, help comes first
If there is violence, threats or control in your relationship, the right step is not a journey or an app: it is talking to someone who can protect you.
Immediate helpFrequently asked questions
What is 3CORD?
3CORD is a Christian marriage help platform. It has practical content for the most common relationship problems, a free assessment to find where to start, guided journeys to work on one specific area, and a daily devotional app for married couples.
Do I have to be a Christian for this to help?
No. The guides on communication, conflict, trust, money and family are practical and work without sharing the faith. The biblical perspective is marked separately on each page, and the app is explicitly Christian.
Does 3CORD replace couples therapy?
No. 3CORD is faith-based support and educational content, not therapy or clinical counseling. Some situations need a professional, and we say so on the pages where it matters instead of implying an app is enough.
What makes the 3CORD app different?
It is not individual. In most devotional apps each person reads on their own; in 3CORD the day only advances once both of you have done your devotional. Progress depends on both, which turns reading into a shared habit.
What does it cost?
The assessment, the guides and the tools on this site are free. The app has a 7-day free trial with no card, and if one spouse subscribes the other has access too.
3CORD offers faith-based support and educational content. It is not therapy, clinical counseling, or medical, psychological, legal or financial advice.
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